As of last Saturday, 13th August 2011, Mr's parents came over for merisik. Alhamdulillah, it all went well. Now we're all excited to move on to the next stages..... :D :D
"Things don't have to be perfect. Things are beautiful when they're true from the heart"- Miss Ramblings.
" Things are beautiful when people are in love. No matter what the partner says, it will be considered as sweet and lovely."- Mr Rambling
I had a brief discussion yesterday with my parents. We were discussing about the possibilities of me getting married this year. My mom told me that she has no problem if I want to get married.
"ok, if u want to merisik, go and buy the ring. Just buy the plain ring which cost around RM 200 - RM 400" mom said.
So the first step of me getting married is to get the merisik ring which is known as the belah rotan. Belah rotan ring is just a simple ring which is known as cincin tanda. I think I'll buy the ring buy this week.
Merisik should be a simple event whereby both families sit together for a discussion and getting to know at the same time. I believe this is the most important step when getting married. From the outcome of the talk, you will then decide whether should you or shouldn't you proceed. For me, I look it that way. If the process of merisik is smooth, then I believe it should be less problem for the next steps.
Based on my research, during the merisik part, the guys should bring a long some fruits, sweets or any gifts. Its not compulsory but more on the public relations between both families.
I was thinking of doing the merisik by this week itself but it seems that my request has been turned down by my parents. They said its better to do during the Ramadhan or after raya. Well, for me, anything is acceptable. The longer time I have, the better it is. Why? More money to save and more time to enjoy my bachelorhood period.
Long Hair, short hair,
Small tummy to big tummy,
From La Bodega to Bandung,
From Klang to Subang,
From UiTM to Sydney,
The more we think the crazy we become,
When I see you, I see myself,
When I sleep, I dream of you,
When I stink, I think of you,
When I'm hungry, I think of you,
It's annoying how much you have been part of the system...
Merisk, Bertunang etc....
I have problems with people,
Either i wait or I lose you,
I'd rather faced all this fear for a journey around the world with you!
Tomei, Habib Jewel, Tiffany & Co,
Cheap, Expensive and Luxury,
Whichever that I buy from, it comes from the heart,
Your precious finger can only be fitted with something nice and precious,
I will definitely take the time to get from the best!
So long...The day is getting nearer..I can feel the heat inside me. My palm is sweating. My mind is thinking of many things! How I wish I am 18 rather than 28...
- When I see u, I smile. When I don't, I still smile. That's what crazy in love is all about.
- You''ll just know the moment when the aura starts approaching.
- You r sexy when your clothes are more.
- Life is different without your soulmate next to you.
- When you are mine, I feel complete.
- When I touch your hand, I feel peace.
- When I see your face, I feel calm.
Yesterday I had a discussion with miss and found out that most of her friends congratulate her.
Why is that so? Is it because of my statement yesterday. Well, honestly, we are thinking of moving forward. Forward where? Just moving forward.
Honestly, I have never really like the idea of going to the whole process of getting married. Merisik, bertunang, nikah and the bersanding part. God! So many things to do and involve a lot of plannings.
My miss told me that if you love me, just go through all this and get it done. Well, ok-ok. I will follow through and act like a man. Sounds funny rite? 28 at the moment and scared of facing all this crap. Opps..It shouldn't be crap as it is a journey.
This is what I said yesterday. A moving forward journey.
to be continued...
